Conversely, Sometimes You Have to Push Through

This is a part of the series of posts that tie back to the 11 Life Lessons I Learned From Running.

In the last post in this series, I stated that Sometimes You Need a Break. This is not always true.

The major hill on my route stumped me when I first started running. I couldn’t seem to make it up the whole thing without walking. It didn’t matter if I walked to the foot of it to rest, ran to the foot of it for a running start, or any other approach I could think of.

As I continued training, I managed to get a little closer each time. Finally, I pushed through the desire to walk and made it up the hill. Talk about excited! (And in need of a break!) I knew that I could make it, and just had to push myself to get there.

Like running, it’s easy to stop or walk when the going gets hard. Sure, you’ll still get there eventually, but you’ll lose valuable time. Without pushing yourself you may not improve and it will always be hard. Later on, as you have built up the endurance, you’ll be surprised at what you can accomplish with ease.

That hill won’t be easy for me for some time yet, but psychologically I have triumphed and that is the edge I needed to really improve my running.

Sometimes You Need A Break

This is a part of the series of posts that tie back to the 11 Life Lessons I Learned From Running.

I only run three days a week, which gives me plenty of time to recover.

Likewise, I have to take breaks and vacations between projects (or during long ones) so that I don’t get burnt out.

It’s easy to keep rushing from one project to the next. There is always more to do, another item on the todo list, or some emergency to take care of. The key is to realize that you can’t always do everything, and that you need to be well-rested to stay focused. Choose which projects/tasks are most useful to your overall goals (perhaps the ones on your Life List or your Action Plan) and drop the ones that do not help move you toward those goals.

This freeing up of time will allow you take necessary breaks. You need to recover, to re-energize, and to be able to focus. Take the time to do what you need to in order to work at your greatest potential.

Time is the great equalizer; no matter who you are or how much money you have, you have 24 hours in a day. Sometimes the best use of them is for a break!

Pace Yourself

This is a part of the series of posts that tie back to the 11 Life Lessons I Learned From Running.

I have a tendency to start out too fast, whether it’s running or my new pet project. I expend all of my energy quickly, wearing myself out too soon.

When running, I have to sing to myself (or find some properly paced music) and match my step to the beat. Though it feels too slow at first, it quickly begins to feel right (and then becomes too fast on the hills!)

Like running, I have to create a “pace” in life. Most often I do this in the form of entries in my todo list/planner. While one setp forward (task) a day can seem slow at first, it also helps me to push through on the days when I don’t feel like doing anything. One step a day quickly builds momentum; after a month you can look back and see what all you have accomplished.

After some practice, the habit is built and I get better at setting tasks that fit in the time I have available.

It’s Easier With a Goal

This is a part of the series of posts that tie back to the 11 Life Lessons I Learned From Running.

I don’t know about you, but I have to have a goal when I run. It makes no difference whether I’m running to a destination, or during a time-frame. Without that set goal I will come up with lots of excuses and you’ll find me on the couch instead of the sidewalk.

It’s easy to coast through life, reacting to events instead of proactively planning. By doing so you end up wherever life tosses you. By setting your own goals, you determine where you will end up and take control of your life.

In life or running, if you aren’t working towards goals, you’re just spinning your wheels.

You Need the Proper Equipment

This is a part of the series of posts that tie back to the 11 Life Lessons I Learned From Running.

I’ve run a half-marathon in a size-too-small shoes. Fortunately, I was able to walk the next day.

You need good quality tools that get the job done as efficiently and effectively as possible, but no more. It’s easy to over-do and over-think the tools that you use. Just like a pair of good, well-fitted shoes to run in, a quality notebook and pen helps me get my writing done. While my laptop may hbe more features, it also has more ways for me to distract myself. I am in a continual process of simplyfing my systems and tools to have the best ones for how I work.

Life doesn’t require the fanciest or newest tools to get the job done. Focus on quality over quantity.

It’s Easy to Over-Complicate

This is the first in a series of posts that expand on each of the 11 Life Lessons I Learned From Running.

Running is simple. You get out there and put one foot in front of the other till you’re done. Many people obsess about the details and make it into a chore.

In life, many people get caught up in the details and over-complicate their lives. They feel like they need the newest gadgets, the fanciest homes, and the snazziest job titles. They try to keep up with the Joneses. This desire for more and better ends up stressing them out, making it so they can’t enjoy the stuff that they purchased to make them happy.

Life is already complicated, don’t make it more than it needs to be.

11 Life Lessons I Learned From Running

Running can give you time to clear your mind, to think about important things or nothing at all. It occurred to me that a lot of the lessons I’ve learned from running apply to life as well.

  1. It’s easy to over-complicate.
  2. You need proper equipment.
  3. It’s easier with a goal.
  4. Pace yourself.
  5. Sometimes you need a break.
  6. Conversely, sometimes you have to push through.
  7. It’s hard to get going again once you slow down.
  8. It’s harder by yourself.
  9. There’s no time like the present to get started.
  10. You get better with practice.
  11. Look around and enjoy the view.

I have expanded each of these lessons into a post of their own and have linked to them above. None of them are overly long, you can read the whole list in a fairly short time. I’m sure you will find something valuable for your own life.

Some of 2010’s Goals Completed Already!

What an exciting start to the year! January isn’t over and I have already completed some of the goals in my 2010 Action Plan, and am working on others.

Visited Grandparents, Friends & Mexico

We headed out to Texas on January 2nd and stopped just north of Houston at a friends’ house for a couple of nights. It was wonderful to visit with them again, and to see their house/community for the first time. It was a lovely place and is on our “potential future places to live list”. We met some of their friends, attended church with them (which we loved) and explored a new-to-us restaurant (Sweet Tomato) that was delicious! All too soon we had to leave and head further south. Then we headed on to the grandparents’.

As an aside: My grandparents have been adventuring for years. They have travelled extensively in an RV, lived in the RV for half of the year for a number of years, and love to get out and explore new places and things.

We arrived at their house after an unenventful trip and they proceeded to show us around the town they call home half of the year. While there, we visited Mexico (the first time to visit for both of us) and had a wonderful time perusing the shops and seeing what they had to offer. My wife and I headed east to check out South Padre Island; I’m sure it is much better now without all of the college students taking it over like they do during spring break.

We explored an old mission, despite the spitting rain and ferocious winds. This same rain and wind caused us to be stranded in Mexico, as the ferry operators took their lunch break to escape the rising rain. Fortunately, it was a fairly quick lunch and we were safely returned to the United States.

More States Visited

Not only did my wife and I visit another country during this trip, but we traveled through a couple of new states. We’ve been through Tennessee many times, and through Missouri a couple of times as well. We drove through Arkansas, stopping a couple of times, and of course Texas was the destination of the trip. We don’t have a formal list made yet, but will in the near future so that we can track our progress.

No Sodas (or Cravings) this year!

I seem to have a gift for quitting sodas. December 31st I had about 3 times my normal amount. I haven’t had one since and have had only occasional cravings for the taste, and no headaches. I will say, though, that just before three days of driving is not the time to quite drinking sodas. Blech!

So Far So Good!

These completed goals are all exciting and are serving as wonderful motivation to keep going. I’m psyched about 2010 and can’t wait to see how the rest of it turns out!

Upcoming Website Redesign

Based on the responses I received as I asked for your help, it seems that it is time for a redesign. Not only will I be changing the appearance of the website, but I will be shifting the focus slightly as well.

Just wanted to give you a heads-up. I plan to have everything done sometime next week, and will let you know ahead of time (for those of you who read this in RSS instead of visiting the site) so that you can take a look around.

Help Me Improve Adventure-Some.com

This site is for you. I want it to be as helpful and enjoyable as possible. So I’m asking for your help. I have three questions that I hope you will answer.

  1. What kind of adventures do you want to see me take part in?
  2. What kind of articles do you want me to write? (ie: more how-to, more reviews, more stories)
  3. What can I do to make the site more helpful for you?

Email me and tell me what you think.

I look forward to your suggestions!